1.Average is better
Ive had three sexual partners, two were average and one had more penis than brains. Honestly, I would opt for an average penis over a big dick any day. Nothing kills the mood like having your cervix forcibly thrusted into.
2. This user admits, after having had a wee bit of fun with all three sizes: small, medium and large;
Huge dicks are nice to look at, neat to fantasize about, but just scary and painful. Im quite fine with average, maybe even slightly above, but anything more is just unnecessary.
3. Its all about the chase, not the size
My ex had a really small dick, tiny hands and has issues with climaxing very quickly. But he was so sexy and used to be amazing at the chase, so by the time it came to sex I was so close anyway that he never failed to get me off. My current boyfriend has a massive dick, but he has no try. He thinks its enough to get it out and swing it around, then cant understand why Im not turned on.
4. I never judge
Ive had 13. Honestly I dont care about size. Ive had large men who couldnt even get me off and small men who fucking blew me away. I never judge a penis by its size. If its long enough to actually go in and you can thrust without it falling out, then its fine.
5. Too big is painful
Never had a penis Id consider small, most partners Id say were average. Had one ex with an above average penis both length and girth Id choose average over it any day. It was just painful regardless of how lubricated I was.
6. Its all about penmanship
I think most men should let go of this question/insecurity. Its not about the size of the pencil, its how good your penmanship is.
7. Girth > Length
People think length is what matters but, honestly, I think girth is where its at. Long can be nice (you get a few more positions) but its work to make sure youre ready to take a big ol monster cock. Stretching can be fun, tearing not so much. Id rather have a nice fat, average length cock. Those things were made for riding. Small can be great fun, too. Best sex I ever had was with a guy who was on the smaller side of average. He used every inch like a dream. And, of course, having a responsive partner who knows that sex is more than just pounding away with his dick. Im a big fan of P in V, but fingers and tongues are good, too.